My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years and he cheated on me last year and i found out this year. we both have been thur some changes this year, and he has been loyal and i know he has cause he has been by my side 24/7 but since he has cheated on me i feel like i have been cheated when it comes to our sex life now that he has a hernia. we have had sex maybe 6 time in a year is it wrong that I’m being selfish and feeling neglected and wanted more from him. I love him but feel so lonely
Ask yourself if the only reason he’s been by your side 24/7 is because of the hernia? Ask yourself if it wasn’t for him having a hernia would he still be cheating on you? And if YOUR heart not in it maybe you should move on. If your not happy in a relationship it’s not fair to you. Especially if in the 4 years you’ve been faithful to him.